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w88 casino games login, who also serves as the director of clinical training in the Department of Psychology for the College of Science, has more than two decades of experience in topics such as gender and sexuality studies. He joined the University in 2022, coming from Washington State University, where he won the faculty diversity award for his research, teaching and service accomplishments in advancing diversity and social equity issues.
During the episode, Sandoval and w88 casino games login discuss how to build the successful ingredients for optimism. w88 casino games login also shares the three key elements for assisting the LGBTQIA2S+ community in boosting resilience in the face of adversity.
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Sagebrushers – S3 Ep. 6 – Professor Paul w88 casino games login
Join host President Brian Sandoval as he and Professor Paul w88 casino games login discuss identifying the successful ingredients of optimism, building resiliency and coping with betrayal
Dr. Paul w88 casino games login: Social support is a societal obligation. I think it shouldn't be incumbent on people to build that for themselves. Society should provide the message that everyone of all backgrounds are valued. And if to the extent that society gives a message that people don't belong, we're not creating an environment in which everyone can thrive.
President Brian Sandoval: This is Sagebrushers, the podcast of the w88 casino games login of Nevada, Reno. Welcome back, Wolf Pack Family. I'm your host, w88 casino games login President Brian Sandoval. Today's guest is an expert on building resilience, our ability to weather life's challenges. We will learn how individuals, particularly from socially stigmatized communities, can foster resilience despite prejudice and stigma. So, let's get started.
Psychology professor, Dr. Paul w88 casino games login, joined the University in August 2022 and has more than two decades of experience in topics such as gender and sexuality studies. In 2017, he received the Washington State University Faculty Diversity Award for his research, teaching and service accomplishments and advancing diversity and social equity issues. Currently, he serves as the director of clinical training in the Department of Psychology for the College of Science. Today's podcast is being recorded at our Reynolds School of Journalism on our University's campus. Dr. w88 casino games login, welcome to Sagebrushers. I'm excited to share with our listeners some of your compelling work and experience.
Dr. Paul w88 casino games login: Thank you. It's great to be here.
President Brian Sandoval: We're thrilled that w88 casino games login're here. So, let's start with one of my favorite topics, optimism. How did your interest in this line of research begin and why study optimism and resilience?
Dr. Paul w88 casino games login: I've always been interested in this topic, and I can actually trace it back to the age of 10. I was watching the evening news, and every night for a while, they were running a story about a man named Terry Fox who ran across Canada. He ran the equivalent of a marathon every single day for close to five months, over 3,000 miles, and that's amazing in itself. But a few years before he did that, he had been diagnosed with bone cancer and had his right leg amputated above the knee. And so he did all of that during one of the most challenging times of his life. And he did that to raise money for cancer research. And he succeeded. He raised millions of dollars, and his legacy actually continues through further fundraising. So even at that age, I was 10 years old, I was just amazed that somebody would have the tenacity, the optimism, to take what would be one of the worst moments of your life into something that would benefit the greater society. And I wish I could tell you that at that moment when I saw that on the evening news, I wanted to become a psychologist to study optimism. But actually it took me a while to figure that out. But I've always been interested in the fact that some people can rise above the worst of circumstances and other people are more fragile. And as a clinical psychologist, I think we're fundamentally in the business of rebuilding optimism in people who have lost that because of challenging circumstances in their life.
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President Brian Sandoval: So, another topic that you've spent considerable amount of time on is helping w88 casino games login who are part of the LGBTQ+ community boost their resilience. Can you share a little bit more about that?
Dr. Paul w88 casino games login: The research shows that there are three pretty critical ingredients to building resilience in LGBTQ+ people. The first we've already spoken about a little bit, which is optimism, having a positive expectation about the future. The second one's a little less intuitive, I think, for many people. And that would be the advice to really be open to your emotions, including our negative emotions. And I think this runs counter to advice. We might hear about how to manage difficult feelings. There are expressions like “turn that frown upside down,” “grin and bear it.” We're encouraged to push away our difficult feelings, especially anger, sadness. But actually if we engage in a regular routine of writing every night, the worst thing that happened to us that day and focusing on our worst emotions regarding what happened, that actually over the long run reduces our stress level, and it improves our mental health.
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So an important source of support for students is to get to know their professors and to take advantage of the resources and the wisdom that they have. And the third component of social support that makes it really important is that it gives us a sense of belonging and belonging to a community. And imagine for a second what your life would be like without a sense of belonging. I know for me, it would just be hard to imagine. It's just a critical ingredient to living a meaningful life. And for LGBTQ+ w88 casino games login who have unfortunately been given messages about not belonging to society, it is just absolutely critical to build one's community. Sometimes that comes to us naturally. Sometimes we have to build our sense of family or sense of community. As an example, for LGBTQ+ w88 casino games login here in Reno, Our Center, which is downtown, is a safe place that provides many activities, many resources. And again, it's a safe haven for folks to give w88 casino games login a sense of community. I do want to also mention that social support is a societal obligation. I think it shouldn't be incumbent on w88 casino games login to build that for themselves. Society should provide the message that everyone of all backgrounds are valued. And if to the extent that society gives a message that w88 casino games login don't belong, we're not creating an environment in which everyone can thrive.
President Brian Sandoval: Wow. Those are some incredible points. So, one of the interesting tips that w88 casino games login've shared is about dealing with betrayal. Sure. So, can w88 casino games login elaborate on that?
Dr. Paul w88 casino games login: I'm interested in betrayal because it's the reversal. It's the opposite of all the good things we've talked about so far today. It involves somebody that you trust not taking your best interests at heart but actually harming you. And unfortunately, this can be from a family member, a friend, a partner, coworker, a boss, other people in power. And so betrayal brings a loss of social support from that person in a very traumatic way. But it also has the capacity to upend your life in terms of your ability to trust people. And betrayal is really the central issue, I believe, in post-traumatic stress disorder, for example, where sometimes people feel betrayed by a specific perpetrator, but sometimes it's a sense of betrayal by the world at large. And that can kick off a cycle in which there's just the inability to trust anyone, even people who might be relatively trustworthy. So, for folks who undergo betrayal or have experienced betrayal, rather, it's really important that they really make an effort to not lose their ability to trust people. Sometimes people who have a traumatic history of being betrayed by various people will… their radar for who to trust people will be off. They'll trust people for the wrong reasons, or as I mentioned, they'll have a hard time trusting anyone. If that's the case, it can be helpful to go to therapy to really process that and get some help with that. Every relationship in life involves some risk, and so we need a healthy capacity to trust even if we've been betrayed by folks in the past.
President Brian Sandoval: Well, it's just a really important conversation, and thank you for your comments. So I'm going to shift a little bit here and talk a little bit about you. You talked about your being 10 years old and watching that gentleman. So, just real quickly, what was your journey and path in landing at the w88 casino games login of Nevada?
Dr. Paul w88 casino games login: Yeah, there's so many things that came into mind as you said that. It took me a while to just figure out my place in the world. I just had a weird upbringing where I skipped two grades. And so I was just really in a situation where I couldn't relate to people, and I was sort of pegged as this mathematical genius to be, and math bored me, so I couldn't figure out what to do about this. And I also felt really out of place. And so I think that was part of my journey to psychology, to spend my life doing something that meant something to me, something valuable to me, which is to get a better understanding of human behavior and to make a positive difference hopefully in terms of people's mental health.
President Brian Sandoval: Wow. That's again another wonderful story. So, we're almost out of time. w88 casino games login've been in Northern Nevada for a few years now. What's your favorite part of living in Northern Nevada?
Dr. Paul w88 casino games login: There's so many things. There's a sense of collaboration here, which I've never experienced. I have research colleagues from the School of Medicine, the Schools of Public Health and Social Work. I'm working on grant-funded research with Northern Nevada Hopes right here in the community. I'm a part of a wonderful organization called the Nevada Gender Clinic, which is a terrific group of people increasing gender-affirming healthcare in the entire state. And I love all the amenities here in Reno. The art scene, all the outdoor activities, the weather's incredible. Last winter, I was told this was the worst winter in memory, and I thought this is pretty average for what I'm used to. And then this past winter was just absolutely beautiful. So it is just been a real privilege to be here at this University and in Reno.
President Brian Sandoval: Well, we're really proud and honored that w88 casino games login're part of the Wolf Pack.
Dr. Paul w88 casino games login: Thank you very much.
President Brian Sandoval: So, unfortunately, that is all the time we have for this episode of Sagebrushers. Thank you again, Dr. w88 casino games login, for joining us. This was a wonderful episode.
Dr. Paul w88 casino games login: Thank you very much. It was a privilege.
President Brian Sandoval: So, join us next time as we continue to tell the stories that make our w88 casino games login special and unique. Until then, I'm w88 casino games login President Brian Sandoval, and Go Pack!
