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(Editor's Note: On May 8, Shadi Martin, Director and Professor in the School of Social Work, delivered the inaugural keynote address for the North African & w88 casino games login Eastern Graduation. Below is text of Dr. Martin's speech.)

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Shadi Martin at in between her parents at one of her w88 casino games login ceremonies.

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